Fashion: Modesty in the Modern World

When it comes to “modest fashion” many may be quick to judge.  You see, I am a convert to the church, The Church of Jesus Christ of Latter Day Saints.  I was baptized and confirmed in November 2011.  So you see I didn’t always dress conservatively and modestly.  Don’t forget I live in the desert, yes our beautiful sunshine state with triple digit temps.  So when I started reading the Young Women’s handbook, I was immediately thought, I would need to redo my whole wardrobe!  That can get quite expensive and realistically I am a on a stay at home mom with hubby still in school budget. So shrugs, cardigans and skirt extenders it was.  Once I was reminded of that Heavenly Father loves HIS children and not our choice in clothing, but how he wants us to live a virtuous life, I took time to think about what that meant.

So what is modesty?

Modesty

Modesty is an attitude of propriety and decency in dress, grooming, language, and behavior. If we are modest, we do not draw undue attention to ourselves. Instead, we seek to “glorify God in [our] body, and in [our] spirit” (1 Corinthians 6:20; see also 1 Corinthians 6:19).

I came across two great articles on how modesty has shaped the lives of many.  I love these Insights on Modesty on lds.org.   LDS Living also  came out with a great article: 5 Ways to Help Youth  See Modestly Differently.

I can testify that I know when we follow these standards we can feel closer to our heavenly father and know that he wants us to respects our bodies and be the example he wants us to be. This includes setting a good example for my little ones (I have 3 daughters). Dressing modestly is not always easy, however when we think about clothing as a reflection of who we are inside, we can feel comfort that we are doing our best to be virtuous.

So I decided to share with you how to dress modestly without giving up the fashionable part.

Here are some great finds

Navy Floral

Amazon  Meaneor Women’s Half Sleeve Swing Dress Floral Print Knee Long A Line Tea Dress $29.98

  • Miusol Women's Navy Style Stripe Scoop Neck 2/3 Sleeve Casual Swing Dress, Navy Blue, Large

Amazon – Miusol Women’s Navy Style Stripe Scoop Neck 2/3 Sleeve Casual Swing Dress   $39

Amazon Meaneor Women’s 3/4 Sleeve Vintage Patchwork A-line Floral Cocktail Party Dress $27.99

Amazon HOTOUCH Women’s Casual Loose Pocket Knee Midi Long Shift Dress $23.99

Amazon – Dantiya Women’s Half Sleeve Elegant Back Zipper A-Line Knee Long Dress $26.96

Product Details

Amazon – Dantiya Women’s Half Sleeve Elegant A-Line Knee Long Dress $26.96

Jane – Olive Floral Dress $22.99

Jane Mint Striped Tunic Dress$21.99

Spring Floral Pocket Midi Dress  $25.99

Floral printed babydoll top $23.99

Here’s a list of online shops that offer modest pieces for your Sunday best or just day to day wear.  You can probably see I am very into the florals lately (who doesn’t love them some vibrant florals)

Amazon 

JenClothing

JUNIEblake

ModLi

Neesees Dresses

Poppy and Dot

My Sisters Closet -Boutique

As you can see we can dress modestly and fashionably at the same time without giving up on style.

May we do our best to understand what modesty is and willfully do what we must do in order to achieve the wonderful blessings in store for us.

Where do you shop for modest clothes?

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Motherhood

MothersMotherhood has been the utmost refining life change I could’ve asked for.  As I reflect back on the moment I became a mother for the first time, I realized that my purpose in this life was ever more essential.  Our eldest daughter, Ella was born on Father’s Day.  Seeing the silent joy as my husband laid eyes on our beautiful daughter gave me such a feeling of overwhelming joy and gratitude.  He reminded me that there is more to this life then climbing up the corporate ladder and chasing after the never ending dream of a extravagant lifestyle.  Becoming a mother, a nurturer, a soother, and a teacher is the most humbling journey I have been honored with.  Each day comes with the unexpected and oh how my patience has been tested and grown.  As my husband and I commenced into parenthood, I ask myself each day, how will I better myself as a mother and wife?  In our household someone is always singing, whether it be a nursing rhyme, a Frozen sing-along, a made-up song =P (I enjoy these very much)  or most of the time an LDS children’s song.  One night both our eldest age 3 and age 4 were were singing “I am a Child of God” and oh how sweet and yet powerful this song is to me.  We are all the Lord’s children and we all have the free agency to choose and listen to our hearts and live a virtuous life.  I have no doubt that my role as a mother is essential for my personal and spiritual growth.  This has enabled me to fine tune my time-management, organizational skills and most importantly my ability to nurture and love unconditionally.  Before becoming a mother, I seemed to have a long to-do list of what’s next.  I love this LDS Living article “Mothering One Moment at a Time” it speaks to me and reminded me that although it’s nice to get to “that point,” I must not get ahead of myself (I tend to do that a lot), I must enjoy and cherish the “now.”   Those “little” moments of playing that game or reading a book to your little seedlings make a WORLD of a difference to them.  May we all learn to enjoy the little moments whenever possible.  May we teach our children to be righteous, virtuous and reverent in all they may do.  Mothering is vital to the future success of their offspring. The family proclamation  says that “successful marriage and families are established and maintained on principles of faith, prayer, repentance, forgiveness, respect, love, compassion, work, and wholesome recreational activities.  I am so proud to be a member of The Church of Jesus Christ I am so glad I decided to start this blog, it has been quite exhilarating and humbling at the same time.

Here are ways  to keep your day GREAT:

  1. Be of good CHEER
  2. Work hard
  3. Go to bed early and wake up early (I am working on the first part :|)
  4. Prepare yourself (write ideas down, make lists,organize your thoughts)
  5. Love & encourage and support one another ❤

I love the scriptures and if you are interested, request a FREE copy HERE.  HE loves us all and wants to know YOU.

What are some ways that help you become a better mother?  If you are not a mother yet, what do you look forward to when becoming a mother?